The correct answer is; to come to grips with the disillusions life hands us. Immaculate dream being the flawlessness that we start with. "Can't ever keep from falling apart." But always remember to "make it alright" Even if it means using "a little crime" or "stay(ing) blind To the hope and fear". Song begs the question; Who do you need, love. True enough people do "lean" on others for support. But it isn't necessary.