This song It Starts with me is about the suffering and pain that is in the world. There is suffering and pain and even things that are just not right going on in the world and people just don't realize or care about it. This song is about making a change in the world. Making it a better place. In the song he says what choice do I have but to force my own hand. By this he means he has no choice but to make a change. This song is basically about realizing there is terrible thing happening in our world and know one is bringing it to attention. No one is caring or even realizing. We can't just think its gonna go away if we don't do something. There for you must do something about it. It starts with you to make a change in the world. That is were the name it starts with me came from. You can't jst think change is gonna happen if no one does anything. Even if your just waiting for one person to make a change you can't do that it must start for yourself. You must be that person who starts making a change in the world!