Are you kidding me? You find this diddy offensive? This song harkens back to a time of innocence, when boys looked at girls and found them attractive. By the way, I had five sisters so I know there were just as many "guy watchers" out there as there were girl watchers. It was all part of the hormonal young adult stage of life. I feel that this song is just about the admiration a young man had of the opposite sex. Isn't that physical attraction the precursor of most of our relation ships at that age? I am sixty nine years old and still enjoy looking at attractive woman; But then again I am able to define what a woman is!