This song was written at the height of the Women's Liberation, 1970s. Double standards for men and women are still alive. Men can roll in and out of bed with partners whereas, women are held do a different standard. She thought she was carefree to try and do it but she really isn't feeling it. What she wants is a loving relationship! A man that will call her by name and be tender and be into "her". Now this man has held tenderly, asked her how she is doing more than any other man she had sex with. She prays to God that he is the one. It's not easy for some people to hop in and out of bed for a short good time. She wants a relationship, a man that will love her and call her by name. Hope that explains it.