Cool off. For me the real meaning of that depends on the persons experience. Mahirap mag-assume na okei p din kahit alam mong hinde. There's sumthing wrong. Maybe pareho kaung nahihirapan ifigure out un. Kea both of you need space, time, and freedom. Para n din makapag-isip isip at mas matimbang ung mga bagay sa paligid. Grabe napacomment acu ng hndi oras kase affecteda cu sa ganitong issue. Me an my boyfrnd are on a cool off stage by the moment. He ask's for it. And I have no choice but to lend him what he wants. Aun waiting mode acu. Hoping for things fall on their proper palces someday. Ang hirap. Lalo n pag hindi mo alam kung kailan maaayos. Uala kang idea kung maaayos pah. Talagang nakikipagsapalaran kah. Well admit it or not choosing to love someone is choosing to hurt urself.