Btw, nomansmaid, you need to find an old-fashioned sweetheart, not some "dude" who you think wants to wipe his feet on you. (And if he does, or if you are indeed his maid, that's your fault, sister -- not his!) I am a woman in the truest sense of the word, and this is the trouble with younger women (girls) today -- they don't look deep enough to find out neat things about a man (boy), to find out what he likes, what he enjoys doing, hobbies, favorites, books he reads, tv shows he watches, fave movies, hopes and dreams, what he remembers from his childhood, etc. I bet you'd be surprised to find out that men (boys) are a lot deeper than the surface, but unfortunately, due to today's raunchy society (plus the way young women act and talk nowadays), they think all you want is s**, not love-making. There's a ginormous diff, my friend. I hope someday you'll be fortunate enough to find a sweetheart --all women deserve that happiness. And think on this: Maybe you're looking for love in all the wrong places? --J.