I think this song may be about the singer being in love with someone who is cold and maybe abusive at times. And maybe from there the singer got annoyed at the constant abuse and decided to snap back and make her cry. The way the song is sung sounds like the singer feels guilty "Lola you don't need to cry." The song could also be about someone who's crush pays no attention to them, thus enabling the ending lyrics 'Oh I wish you knew my name."