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That I don't ever think I can ever learn how to love you right
Oh, and all the ways that you won't bend, are the only ways I live my life
[Chorus]
Oh, and I'm tryna cope and burn just right, yeah
Oh, and I don't ever think I can ever learn how to love you right
I think here he's talking about how all the toxic behavior he has is on par with the nontoxic behavior she has. Meaning like if he's an alcoholic she doesn't drink any alcohol. There are probably more relationship specific examples but I don't know