I'm not saying that anyone in the band is a sexual failure! I'm pretty sure they get laid plenty. Haha. It's just a song, they're just weaving a story for us. It's not a given that they are talking about themselves! Haha. Plus they always sing songs that hint at their own insecurity like What a catch Donnie's "I've got troubled thoughts and the self esteem to match" Just wanted to add that. I just realized that about their songs and wanted to work it out by writing about it. Haha.