Wow unregistered on jan. 3 you have totally touched my heart, rather hard to do, I have my own facade and pride. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I also agree that god loves us very much. I am a single father, I know that loneliness that you speak of. And it is not my ex-wife. It is the woman that I fell in love with next that this song reminds me about. She made me complete. But she is gone now and all that left is the smoking crater that was my heart. It is one thing to break-up badly and move on, it is another, when you encourage it because she got a great job opportunity in another country. Having to look her in the eyes and tell her that it is great job, smile. It was the hardest thing I ever did. But love makes you do hard things. Keep the faith and look out for the little ones, they need you strong.