Listen sophiabosset, obviously if your obsessing over a song by someone whos probably half your age and lacking a facebook page for they're cat your probably not going to find anyone in your life, unless its on world of warcraft. Your in the same boat with all of these other people who think theyll find love by reading the lyrics to the song. The only good thing about him going solo is that his circle jerk before concerts can be considered incest anymore. The only thing I can say to you is to learn how to master photoshop (that is if you already dont) and make a picture worthy enough to get you a guy with at least half of his original teeth. Live and let love.