Someone who is staying somewhere that is holding them down because they think they are "owed" something there. When in reality the heaviness of the old place they need to leave, but are having difficulty is putting weight bags on their feet. They never wanted to be there, like a dead end relationship or situation that they never wanted to be in that they need courage to change. Because life's not fair, so we need to take the step to change things sometimes when we are moving and not going anywhere. Its about keep moving forward or else complacency will kill you.