That the term "church" can be and is different for everyone. For many it is a place to go to worship God or a Higher Power. For others it is a state of mind, a feeling rather than an actual building. When they are together, intimate, that is a scared and holy for them. He knows he views it in a different context then most of the population but doesn't really care. To him, making love to someone, that is the time when he can be closest to God, heaven and another person. And he wants the feeling to last so he will do whatever is asked of him so he can continue to be that close to the person he is with.