I can relate to this song. My husband is 12 years older than I am. It was almost 3 years in the marriage that I was able to know his insecurities and hang ups from his family. He imposed a lot of limitations to me, being young and in love, I thought it was his way of caring, but it was not. 10 years after and 3 kids, He is still controlling everything and does not care about my self improvement. He only thinks of himself and what he can get from our relationship, I have adjusted so many times to him but still he is not satisfied. I finally gave up trying to please him. I'm all worn out and got nothing to give anymore emotionally, mentally and physically. "because of you, I am ashamed of my life because its empty!) Now am trying to get back up, but its hard and I'm struggling. Am not giving up though.