Just allow me to ask this question. How painful, really, is it? I mean I'm loving someone who doesn't know and doesn't love me back. It hurts but I don't think it's as painful as yours guys! We never had a break up because there was no "US" and there will never be "US" (for sure). That's sad. Honestly, I could somehow imagine the pain you're describing here. I'm just not sure if it's the exact one. Hmmm.