The song is not about the media stereotype of the crazy bitch who lures men. Notice blank space means fill in the next name of the long list of heartbreaks she's experienced. It is about a woman who actually is in full control everything from whoing how to lure the type of dangerous men she is attracted to the mistake types and the timetable she sets one month before the emotions sets in. He needs to decide to go all in or get out now. If any distrust sets her off he will realize to full extension of what she feels inside. She's not crazy. What we see in the video are her the physical equivalent of how she feels inside and she won't suffer alone in this. He goes from Oh My God who is this girl to OMG get me out of here!