This song to me feels really sad. It has a important meaning to it. The meaaning is that your bf has alot to do in your life but he can't control you. You are your own person. You don't do things when someone tells you to do them. Honestly if you find yourself in a controlive relationship sometimes its best to let that person go. You may love them, you may care for them, but they are not really caring for you if they treat you like this. Its not love in a relationship like this its hate. If you really loved someone you would want them to always be happy. And if they arent leting you expirence happiness, then you, and onlyb you should end the realationship. So now, you8 can really smile because you deserve to.